Blowjobs: An Art - Instructions for Use 2°

As I tried to summarize in the title, I believe giving blowjobs is an art, while receiving them is a sublime pleasure.

Naturally, it depends on the purpose of the blowjob.

Indeed, sucking a member to harden it and then allow penetration for reproductive purposes has (can have) very little of the artistic and very much of the animalistic, in the sense that nature dictates that almost all animals lick each other before mating, and the human animal is no exception.

Obviously, even this practice in amorous foreplay for pleasure or reproduction can have a certain creative edge if done with passion and enthusiasm.

However, I want to speak of the blowjob as the ultimate erotic gesture aimed at giving and receiving pleasure as an end in itself.

Moreover, this practice is now commonly accepted and widespread among both sexes and therefore no longer has, as it once did, the exciting, transgressive content.

With these necessary premises in mind, let's move on (or prepare to make our partner come) to the practice of the blowjob as a sublime instrument of pleasure.

The posture:

1) The man stands and the one sucking him kneels.
This is the classic position for giving a blowjob.

It's the one that comes most easily to mind and is also the one we can find in the most disparate situations:
It can be imposed by an emergency
; a furtive meeting between lovers to be consummated quickly before someone inappropriate arrives (husband, colleague, boss, etc.);
between strangers (mostly gay) in precarious or outdoor places such as cinemas, public gardens, toilets, elevators, etc.;
or simply because it's the position in which one is dominant and the other is submissive.
Naturally, this distribution of roles is, in my opinion, completely arbitrary, as in sex, barring violent practices, it's difficult to establish who dominates whom. Normally, we tend to think that the male has the active role.
Personally, I don't believe this to be the case.
In fact, I believe that the male is very fragile and easily dominated when sexually aroused.

This position enhances the male's arousal by creating a state of anticipation and giving him a sense of omnipotence that promotes erection, but at the same time, it allows the kneeling partner to dictate the pace of play.

She can first caress him from above his clothing to check the firmness of his penis and sense the first signs of vitality.

Then, she can undo the buttons or zip up the zipper according to her own ritual, perhaps looking the male in the eye and giving him a knowing smile.to grasp the impatient wait.

Typically, during this phase, the male experiences a slight tremor that must be calmed with gentle, reassuring movements.

Sometimes, the urge manifested by the man rushing to unbutton his shirt must be controlled by preventing him from unsheathing his sword prematurely.

Of course, if you want to enjoy a quick "consummation," you can accommodate this urge and indulge him by making him cum immediately.

Once the door is open, reach in with both hands, pull down his underwear if he's wearing them, and extract his cock, which is usually not yet fully erect, even if the first drops of stringy dew are already emerging from the head.

At that moment, the sensation for the person holding that warm, fluid member is truly wonderful; the urge to immediately enter his mouth is uncontrollable, but you have to know how to restrain yourself, how to wait.

First, you need to strengthen the relationship with the legitimate owner of the tool you're handling and about to eat.

After caressing it, removing the hat, and covering it with little kisses, look the man in the eye and hold the member as if checking its firmness, say:

"What a beautiful cock you have."

Then, if the dick is truly impressive, continue like this:

"What a cock... big... and it's still loose, I wonder how it gets... with this monster you'll destroy women..."

He'll pretend not to notice, but he'll be very flattered and will respond with meaningless words, but instinctively, he'll stroke your hair.

If it's undersized, however, you'll need to encourage him with other words:

"...You know, you really have a beautiful cock... hard, it'll be even better... all ready to be sucked, and... who knows how much cum you'll hold inside it... afterwards, you'll make me drink... are you sure you'll make me drink..."

Men are always aware of their endowment, yet they are sensitive to flattery and enjoy feeling their unique qualities highlighted.

This, however, is a very delicate moment; an erection, as we know, is not just a hydraulic process but also, and I would say above all, has a very strong psychological component.

It is absolutely essential for the man to have a full erection, otherwise the blowjob is deprived of its true meaning, and this task is largely entrusted to the person in front of him, kneeling with parted lips and a willing and welcoming mouth.