I needed a ball drainer

Widowed and retired early when my wife got ill, no real need to work as I'm very, very financially well off. At 55 my two children grown up and out making their own lives, I visit them fairly regularly. My home is an apartment, and I also own the building which is always fully leased. I've a housekeeper who comes three days a week for a couple of hours each day. Other than that, my life is fairly boring, I visit museums and art shows, hadn't thought of dating since losing my wife to cancer. But I started getting horny, realized I needed to get my balls drained by a woman, Masturbating didn't satisfy me as much as I thought I needed. Not wanting to use hookers either, but then I was asked to help out a friend who needed my expertise. I agreed to help also thought it would take my mind off sex for a while. While helping out I met Sandra 49 also widowed and having a hard time financially. Having lost her husband and only child in a car accident, both survived several days in hospital before passing away. With no insurance from the one vehicle accident as her husband had left it lapse. The hospital and funeral costs were crushing her financially. She is easy on the eye as they say and always looking for extra paid work. As a result of my working in my friend's office for a few weeks, I became aware of her troubles. I took her with me on a trip to finalize my work helping my friend, while away together I bedded her. On our return my help wasn't required anymore, I planned to return to my retired lifestyle, seeing the chance of regular sex with Sandra. I offered her a room in my apartment to save her paying rent, neither of us were ready to remarry at the time and still aren't as of now. But we get on very well and enjoy our sexual relationship. She is slowly getting on top of her finances and if I was to remarry Sandra would be my first choice. She is happy draining my balls and still working her job and being my companion. We've similar interests and really enjoy our time together.